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Originally posted by TKE209Sweethrt
Well, it's like this, I guess the reason why she likes me so much is that I'm a wise-ass. I crack jokes constantly and well, I know my stuff pertaining to the sorority. And that we both like Kevin Smith movies. *shrugs* But here's another issue, she is VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY clingy person, she has had some major family problems and etc. I, well, I'm not a very sympathetic person by nature, I try, but I'm just not. Also, I'm not very clingy..unless you're a really hot guy.  Her over affectionate personality creeps me and my pledge sisters out. Plus, she is assn't pledge mom, and has been trying to take over the Pledge Mom's position. (another drama..won't go there)
I mean, I really don't want her to be my big but I'm afraid that if she forces someone to be her little next semester that we could lose members of the future pledge class. Yes, I know my KGD girls...taken their personalities "T" would end up being duct-taped to a wheelchair and rolled over the hill into the creek.
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OH MY GOSH.... this sounds *exactly* like something that happened in my chapter last year. Down to a "T" hehe.
My advice would be to go on and take her as your big, especially if you want your KGD girls to all pledge next term. You can always be really honest in terms of not wanting to be hugged or clung to... It kinda depends on what your goals are. If you want the KGD girls, maybe you should take her. If you want an awesome big, don't take her.
Another thing I've found is that the importance of big sisters (though they are important) often seems overexaggerated when you're pledging--I love my big and my littles but you can't turn that into your central experience of the sorority. Once you're initiated any drama associated with that fades.