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Well I would give this advice, I've met my big once, he joined the army after he pledged and has since only been around once to hang out. My big big has tried to take his place but graduated at the end of the semester that i pledged and has not been around much at all. The point I'm getting at is to make the best of it. Not everyone can have the best big in the world and not everyone can always be happy with the big they get. Make the best of it, maybe your big big, or big big big is really cool and you can bond with the other girls in your line and at least be on good terms with your big, and if not look at it this way, sooner or later she'll be out of your hair, its not like you HAVE to spend time with her all the time and it's not like she wont be graduating some day.
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