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I have twins and it's never been a problem for me. They get along great and are best friends and room together.
I don't know how to advise you. Since T is a sister, she has to get a little sis someday. So someone has to do it. Do all of the KGD girls feel negatively towards T?
Another way to look at it is to try to develop a connection with T. Maybe you could find some things in common. I know when I pledged I had certain ideas about certain people in my chapter and then ended up loving those women. It sounds like T and you have a significant history, though.
In all, the best advice is probably to go for the option that will piss off the fewest people and cause the most chapter harmony. Is T a senior? If so, that's only a few months that you would have to deal with her.
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