Congratulations on finding your home! Try to remember that the stress you're enduring now will lead you to a lifetime of sisterhood.

I'm glad you've educated yourself on what is and what is not acceptable, and I hope that you have the strength to report it if something unfortunate should occurr.

I understand that you're hurt and offended - I probably would be too. Just try to remember that one person does not always represent the mindset of an entire sorority.