I can tell you from the PNM's perspective it can hurt.
At a party, myself and another PNM were being shown the house by a sister. At the end, as we were leaving, the sister hugged the other PNM and just said goodbye to me. I felt kinda hurt but shrugged it off a few seconds later. I didn't take it personally at all.
In a sister's position I think I'd either hug everyone I talked to, or no one. Just to be equal.
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