This is an offshoot of another thread where a poster expressed surprise that a sister of a UCLA sorority was photographed hugging a PNM at a pref party. Some replied that physical contact was allowed at their schools, some said that handshakes were okay, some said they were allowed to hug if the PNM initiated it, etc. So to avoid completely hijacking that thread, I thought I'd start this one
When I was at Pitt, we were definitely allowed to hug the PNMs but since that was so long ago that we actually called those girls "rushees", things might have changed since then!