Adrienne,
I am so sorry!
I know right now you must be hurt, but I do hope that you will reconsider alumna initiation. Who knows? Maybe the fat lady was just signaling the end to act one and not the end to the whole opera. You'll never know what act two holds for you unless you pursue it.
Please know that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can help with, do not hesitate to let me know.
~ Annie