I can't do it either... 
I figure, we parted for a reason, why bring the sex back into the equation -- right? I dunno, maybe there's something wrong with my "drive" ... Cuz I don't really have a desire to "crank" unless I have a Man. I guess I need that other level there for me to 
feel him. I ain't sayin' I ain't never had no indiscretion (*ahem*). But it didn't feel okay, and I couldn't make a "thing" out of it... No sex with the "ex" for me -- until we get back together...  
