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Originally posted by kddani
But this is annoying.... how can i nicely get rid of him?
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I know this is coming off rude, but I have dealt with this before on numerous occasions...so take it for what it's worth.
There is not a nice way to nicely get rid of him. You said it yourself, he's annoying the hell out of you...be rude! Maybe then he will get the point. A lot of time with people you need to bring out the harsh reality. Some people are just so persistant, you need to bring out the big guns.
Don't do the normal weak girl thing and say, "You know, I'm really not interested right now." Quite honestly that doesn't work because it gives him a shread of hope. Doesn't it creep you out that a guy you don't know all that well is IMing you constantly? Nobody said you have to be nice to everyone. Tell your friend this guy is a freak, because quite honestly that is freakish behavior.
The guy is not girl retarded, he just needs a dose of reality.