Congratulations, KappaTarzan!!!
I could tell you what my wedding cost, but it was so long ago that the prices would have to be adjusted for inflation!
My piece of advice to you is to decide as soon as possible what one element of the wedding is most important to you (i.e. open bar, flowers, band, etc) and plan to spend the most money on that. Then work the other things into your budget.
I LOVE flowers and, like squirrely girl, I really went to town with them and it still makes me happy every time I look at the wedding pictures and see them
