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I would try to find a way to have her tell me herself without me even coming out and asking. I personally think the VERY LAST thing one should do is let her know that you all feel she is being abused. All she will do is deny it and tell all of you to mind your business and be pissed off at everyone.
The fact that her fool serenaded her in a place of business, is not only crazy, but more and likely his way of checking up on her to find out if she was actually telling him the truth on her where abouts... he may have tried to call her at her desk and if she is always in a meeting he had to find out for sure some how. Also it could have been guilt from slapping her up the night before or before she left for work that morning.
Verbal abuse is just as bad, he will make you feel lower than low. And not matter how smart, pretty, education you have he will find a way to make you feel like you have done nothing but waste your time. She knows what's going on and why she wont leave, because she is probably at the point where she doesn't think she can do any better than him. He's been feeding her negative garbage for so long she finds it now to be true.
The only thing you can all do is PRAY FOR HER! However, if you talk to her please do not tell her you suspect abuse until you are able to find a way to work it in without her rolling over into defensive mode.
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