In these same threads I have seem some very admirable panhellenic GC'ers. There will always be the other. But I truly value the ones that share their knowledge, and want what is best for the PNMs, even when their own house is under discussion. They make me really proud to be greek. To me they exemplify what being greek is all about!
I tend to skip over the negative talk, and focus on the comments with something worthwhile to contribute. They are there, I promise.