Chris, please don't paint everyone with the same broad brush. I do think that the strain of recruitment has a few tempers smoldering (yes, it's hard on
both sides of the coin!), and we need to remember to act more like ladies. I also think that there are some PNMs who, in their happiness, haven't yet adopted a very panhellenic outlook - which is normal. I'm sure that will be addressed by their New Member Educators, and they'll understand. We're all human. We just need the occasional reminder to also be ladies.