[honeychile]

Ladies!

Pinklady was kind enough to share her views of rush with us, post after each party, and ask our opinions. With everything that's been said, I'm sure she understands what happened and all - she even had a legacy house where she didn't feel comfortable. Isn't that what we always preach? Give everyone a second & third chance, but if you're not comfortable, then find the house where you are comfortable?

I admit that I'm disappointed that an ADPi legacy wasn't comfortable with the UM chapter, but it happens! In fact, it happened to me, so I'd be the last to point fingers!

Maybe y'all don't see how mean-spirited this thread is becoming. If Pinklady (as a PNM) said something that came out wrong, I can be much more forgiving than those of us who are already IN our house of choice.

She's asked for our help. Let's be ladies as we advise her.

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