I was definitely not trying to be mean about any of the houses. Like i said i know some girls in "gray" and one of my very best high school friends pref'ed gray (im not sure where she ended up because bid day is taking place right now). i think i was being truthful in all my descriptions, i said its true they dont have a good reputation but the girls were nice. never did i say "oh my god i cant believe i have to go here its terrible" becuase those were NOT my feelings at all. (and the fact that i thought they didn't put on a great rush, thats all subjective, someone else might have thought they put on a great rush and felt immediately at home etc but that just wasn't the case for me personally.)

There is also a differene between thinking youre too good for a house and thinking that the girls just aren't clicking with you. If you can look back at your expereince and say "i didnt get my first choice, i got my second but looking back i realized it was right and that my first choice house wouldnt have been good", its basically the same thing of saying wow these girls are a fit for me, and another house just wasnt as great a fit, which is basically what i said about the houses, that they werent a great fit.