[lizp1228]

hi
just wanted to tell my story and get some advice.

well, i actually finished formal rush about two weeks ago. for second rounds i got asked back to my top 7 houses and i was excited. i went through it and found 3 houses that i thought i really connected with. i was so sure that i would get asked back to those three houses i put at the top of my list, but i didnt. i was shocked on pref night when i got my list. i only got asked back to one house that was number 7 on my list. i went to their house and decided that i didnt feel comfortable there. after a long talk with my rho chi, i dropped out so i could have more options during cob or spring rush. plus i felt so deceived by my top three houses. i really felt that i had great conversations at those houses and i really liked my top house especially. so now im confused and dont know what to do. i really want to be a part of a sorority, but i also feel let down.

im going through cob, but none of my top three are doing it, and i knda want to hold out for them. but then again, they didnt choose me in the first place. i think i'll wait for spring rush.

can anyone explain to me why my top three didnt ask me back(i felt really confident)? or have any advice?