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This was freshman year, but my boyfriend at the time (now an ex), 2 of our guy friends, and 1 of my girl friends went to this club. Well, someone got the day wrong because that night it was only 21 and over. So being that we didn't want to waste the night, we were trying to figure out what to do. 1 of the guys suggested going to this strip club. My ex had already been once before to the one that was suggested and so it was really up to my girl friend and me. At first I wasn't sure, but I was like who cares, let's just go. So we go, it's not that big of a deal, I didn't care if my ex was watching, he wasn't doing it disrespectfully by any means, he was just watching from afar with me by his side. Anyways, I thought everything was fine, new experience whatever. Then the next day my girl friend told all of our girl friends on our floor that she couldn't believe I went to a strip club with my boyfriend. Then she came into my room and was all like why didn't you stick up for me as women, we shouldn't have gone, blah blah blah. I was like whoa, she seemed fine with it yesterday, and now this. But I just countered with I didn't care, it's not like he was going to go home with any of them, I know he loves me and I'm secure enough with myself and our relationship, so it didn't matter.
Just thought I'd share that little story.
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