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Old 09-23-2003, 04:18 PM
ilovemyglo ilovemyglo is offline
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From experience here:
When someone has the attitude that you are "too much of a party girl for them" then maybe it isn't that you are a huge party girl, but there are some people that ANY drinking and partying or swearing is TOO much. That doesn't mean it is, but they feel like morally these things are wrong and they can't be associated with them.
I had a good friend like that. She has never had a drink of alcohol, believes gambling is a sin and I don't think she has ever said a cuss word and she has never see a real live penis (except for possibly on tv but I doubt even that!).
There is nothing wrong with that, it is a personal choice. However she began to criticize my choices and our other friends choices. When I went to Vegas with my parents she was appalled because my parents condoned it!! (They go to Caesars in Indiana more than I even could!) and she about had a fit whenever some of us went to a bar for the sake of, dare I say it, getting trashed !!!
Eventually we quit talking to her. She wasn't a bad person, she just couldn't handle the things we felt were acceptable. Different people have different views on acceptable and unacceptable behavior. But if someone feels they are morally "above" what you do, then you cannot communicate or find a level ground... because there isn't any.
And besides there are plenty of guys out there that probably like you just the way you are. This guy doesn't sound like one of em.
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