I know exactly what you are talking about. My boyfriend and I just had this very conversation last week. He told me that I changed after I crossed. I crossed in Spring of 2002. I became upset because I know that my attitude and characteristics are the same. After digging deeper the truth came out. He really meant that I didn't have as much time for him as before. It used to be me and him. Now it's me and him, me and sorors, me and chapter meetings etc. I know it is tough on him, but I just want him to realize that I feel like I'm here for a purpose and God's plan was for me to fulfill that purpose through my ties with Delta.
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