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girrrl...been there. I would like to say that everyone deserves a 2nd chance, but sometimes that's not always true.
I gave my guy that chance and he stayed faithful for a while...and then he strayed AGAIN.
I think you need to find out WHY he cheated....if someone is in a relationship they value, and they love the other person, there is NO reason for them to go somewhere else. A moment of weakness shows that his respect for you wasn't his voice of reason when he needed it most, which means he might not listen to it again if you let it go.
I think cheating on someone is telling both people that you're not happy with what you have and that means you can't make the other person happy either.
As much as it might hurt....I think you should let go now...if you let it go, you might never REALLY let it go. You'll alwasy suspect what he does, where he goes, what he says, who's he with, etc, etc, etc. and you really don't want to live like that do you......
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