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Originally posted by AKA2D '91:
For those of you who are married, has it been hard to maintain 'ships with your "girls" who are not married?
And single sistas, has it been awkward or hard to maintain your 'ship with your girl(s) who has recently gotten married or has been married for years with children and all that?
For those of you who are married, what does your husband have to say about you "hanging" with our "girls"? Or does he have anything to say at all?
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As with anything, you get out of it what you put into it. As a married woman I do find myself spending less time with my single girlfriends. Why? There are only 7 evenings in a week. After my Bible Study night, 1 - 2 committee meetings/volunteer obligations, 1 "do nothing/just for Eclipse" night, there is not a lot of time left. I have to make time for my honey, so sometimes my single girls don't get the same amount of time. It is a lot easier to do "couple things" so you have your girlfriend time and time with him. I always find it funny when we are hanging out with 1 or 2 other couples and we end up men in one area, women in the other. Makes me feel like my parents!!
Also, several single friends & I have drifted apart, just because. No problems, but we are at different stages in our lives. Of course the true blue, through thick and thin friends are always there no matter what stage of life we are in!! I always make time for them and my husband understands that when I say certain names not to expect me before midnight!