[ilovemyglo]

If your finace lets his family do this to him now, and to you, then they are showing a total lack of respect for you as his future wife, for one, and for two, your fiance will let them do this the rest of your lives.

If the thought of this lazy bum living with you is that unbearable then by all means tell your fiance you cannot accept the conditions. I am not saying make him chose between his family and you, but this was his family's decision to bring him out to Georgia and "take care of him" not you and your fiancee so if they want him there, it is their responsibility. I understand he is family, but why all of the sudden is this the "right thing" to do? and why you two?

I am sorry, if it were me I would have to tell my fiance, if he stays I go.
And if he wants to be there so bad, then he needs to get a job and contribute!