Holly, I'm sure your answer could be found in the "Rush" forum. But as a short answer, at my school, all rushees go to all events at all houses except for preference night. They must be invited back for preference night and we basically invite back everyone we like. That night, a preference list is made that contains a first and second list of rushees. The number allowed in the lists is determined by quota - the number of rushees divided by the number of sororities (4 at my school).
That's formal rush. You might want to try a search. Many people have posted long and detailed explanations to your question.
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