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That is so sad to hear, I'm sorry! I agree with everyone else, he needs to realize by himself that he needs help and he needs o do it without anyone telling him to.
That said, it still sucks b/c youre obviously in love with this guy and it hurts to push him away, even though it's probably for the best. Wha i would do: I'd send him a card or letter letting him know that I'll always be there for him as a friend and confidant. Then of course you have to stop calling/seeing him as frequently as you did when you were together. He can't be the first person you turn to when youre excited or when youre scared - that has to be someone else now. Still make time for him, but don't compromise yourself and your well being for it.
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