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i am sorry to hear about your break up!! my ex and i broke up almost a year ago and it is still hard. i have remained friends with most of my exs, including my most recent. my first love and i don't talk anymore mainly bc we lost touch over time (we broke up about 10 years ago). we definately didn't talk alot when we first broke up. if we saw each other somewhere or something, sure, but we didn't call or hang out for few months. then we started writing pretty frequently (he was at school). my latest ex and i really didn't seperate all that well. it was like, oh we are broken up, but let's spend 100 hours on the telephone. this just made it worse!!! as my friends said, it was like we were pretending to be broken up. we didn't talk for about a month and then our conversations were short (like 10 minutes or so) to start. now, i don't bust into tears everytime we hang up. it was like a terrible emotional roller coaster ride for the longest time. he is my best friend in the world and has been for much longer than we had been a couple, so i really don't want to loose him. we are definately not back at that "best friend" type relationship, but we are definately on the right track. take your time and take care of yourself. i hope things go well for you too.
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