Looooooong post!
I have to agree with stardusttwin.
The main problem is that Black women between the ages of 29 and 44 have the highest prevalence rates for HIV and AIDS. The MAJORITY of them are getting HIV from men who have sex with men (MSM) and brothahs on the low. The others are from IVDU. I did not say ALL but most.
Tell ya a story...
A fiend of mine recently, like...last friggin' wekend went out with a guy we ALL kne in college. He told her of how he had hanled his business in terms of paying all his bills off and getting his credit together, etc., and was ready to settle down. She told him that she told her grandmother about it (you know how us women can be) and that she looked forward to his visit. He then said that he had something to tell her. He said that he had been "struggling" with his sexuality.
This "struggle" had been going on for a while and he had his first encounter with a male at 26 yoa. He's 33. Uhm...yeah. You ain't been struggling for 7 years bruh...you are GAY. She told him she thought he was gay and NOT bi, and that he simpy didn't want to accept all the things that being gay comes with. She told him that they could hang out but no nookie, etc. She told him she was glad he told her and that he owed it to the women he was convincing himself he still liked, that he had sex with men.
He said that this MSM stuff is right in front of us at all times, but if you are not privy to know, then you just don't know. It could be a little inuendo that if said, he can tell if the man is down or not.
Case in point, in college, we remember one day he was saying how women felt like the p_____was powerful and that we could control men with it. He then said something like "It ain't all that. Hell I could do without it!" Now, if you know brothahs like I KNOW brothahs, most would be like "Nukka please!" But if ONE man was like "yeah I could do without it, too." Then they would both be like "see yo' ass after the party, bruh." You get what I am saying.
This guy had had sex with a woman in February and din't tell her. He said he told a few frat brothers and his mom. Bottom line is, this brothat will most likely end up married and do what? Live a double life, putting his ENTIRE family at risk.
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Originally posted by stardusttwin
I hope you are being facetious....besides what does bisexual women have to do with heterosexual women being infected by partners who are in the closet and community attitudes by "straight" men at large that encourages this deceitful behavior?
Lets be clear - I have nothing against gay men - I have a HUGE problem with men who deny they are gay and continue risky behavior in the year 2003.
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