WOW. I loved GC's support during rush, and still love the support I've gotten since going Phi Chi. I loved getting pm's or posts saying "I'd love to see you join XYZ" "I'd love for you to be my sister" etc because it made me feel good. Yes, I knew that this didn't guarantee me a bid and I NEVER felt stalked when I got pms, emails, even a phone call from a Gcer wanting to know how things went. I didn't have friends here that wanted to hear about it (my friends and family are antiGreek) so I was THRILLED to have people to talk to about it. I know you gals have lives and aren't sitting in front of a computer ready to end your life if I don't get a bid, and I know you aren't going to jump off a cliff if I never came back to post whether I got a bid or not, even if you post "any updates?" "where are you?" etc. If any PNM's feel like they're being stalked by GCers, I'm genuinely sorry. I won't ask for updates anymore, but I will wish you luck, enjoy your thread, and pray you end up happy!