K Gina back to your orginal question. How it is that you can continue to get loyal members of your orgainizations?
It's all about showing love and respect. It's in the little things that we do. Even when we know we were'nt a girls first choice, or evan if she was a snap bid, we treat her like she's #1 to us. We do our best to treat her like our own blood sister and like she's been our best friend for life. We try to always be there in good and bad times. We listen to her needs, her concerns, etc. Like someone posted on another thread it's a lot like marriage.
I guess let me ask you this. Why are your close friends, the ones who aren't your sorority sisters, loyal to you? That's why our girls are loyal to us. The ritual we do ties all that together and makes us sorority sisters; but even without it we'd be close.
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