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		| Originally posted by AlphaChiGirl: Gina Lynn,
 
 [*]Your second question...the way Rush works, a girl often doesn't get an invite back from a group she has had her eyes set on. I know we were constantly told (this is before I started college, my college has a very informal Rush) to concentrate on the houses that have invited you back, and you will be sure to find a house with which you are happy, and in which you feel as if you could find a home. Usually, if a girl doesn't want to be a member of a certain sorority at all, she won't pledge.
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 Ok, now I'm confused.  It's a "bad" thing to have a preference?  I may be looking at this wrong, so please help me out.  Let's say a I have done my research and I like AXO and I also like and feel at home with the chapter of AXO on my campus.  I'm not going to be invited back just because I has a preference?