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Would I handle it? Yes. Would I make her cry or take pride in it if I did? No. Would I try to figure out why this girl thought this was the only way she could get attention? Yes. I think that it is best to handle things with as much grace and class as possible, and that doesn't include intentionally being a bitch sometimes. I just don't believe that a lady has to be a bitch at all.

I used to go to a VERY small campus as well. I had a roommate who was extremely jealous because I had more friends than she did, the place in the show choir that she wanted, etc etc. She told the guy I was dating and several other people that I had stayed with a guy a couple of months before and I was pregnant. (I was a virgin at the time, and there was no guy.) I was brought before the conduct board because the story reached administration. Did I take care of those rumors? You bet. Are we still on good terms? We're not the best of friends, but yes.

Yes, I would've been upset if I had been in your situation, but I hope I'd have handled it with more class and respect than to brag to people that made a freshman girl cry.