[HotDamnImAPhiMu]

hi, sorry to crash, but I was thinking about a certain someone in posession of my number who hasn't called yet and got distracted.

The "five of us together makes it an event" is a problem across the board I think. We kinda try to sidestep it... i.e. if it's a fraternity function, it's a fraternity function. Delta Chi parites & formals could have doubled as Phi Mu parties/formals, but since D Chi organized/planned/housed it, what're you gonna do.

Of course, as DeltAlumn pointed out in some other thread, it's a lot to do with how you project yourself, too -- if you don't identify yourselves as part of your group, it seems less threatening. e.g. we certainly don't do any cheers or wear lavileres when we know there will be imbibing of certain substances. We giggle together and maybe take a picture of us and our dates and otherwise we're just close friends who happen to be in the same place at the same time.

and for the record, I agree. He should've taken you out to dinner.