Total Elegance,
It's funny you should mention Body Solutions. I was investigating that just yesterday. It's a lil pricey for me, considering I have spent hundreds on exercise equipment that's collecting dust & suppliments that made me feel entirely too hyper. The thing that interested me is that you take it at night and not during the day so I imagine it doesn't keep you awake at night like some other suppliments do.
Like you, I lose motivation when I exercise by myself. It's too easy to rest and stay rested when you're tired.
I am seriously encouraged by what everyone has said. In fact, tomorrow when I go for my twice weekly torture session (otherwise known as step aerobics), I will inquire about getting a trainer.
All I have to say is these men better watch out. We're already dangerous. Who knows what will happen once we get to where we want to be!
BE ENCOURAGED Y'ALL!!