I would feel honored to receive a COB bid. I kept mixing up the sororities when I had to rank them on my card and had to really think hard, and because the visits were so short, it really was hard to figure out who I liked best, second best and so on. I have no idea how the sororities were able to get a good feel for the 150 or so girls that they had to decide on. You know we all have our off days, so to be honest, I think that the revisits after formal recruitment are really better. I thought I really liked ABC, but after seeing them in "real life", I know now that I would not really fit in.
When the dust settles and everyone is being "real" is when you really know I think!!
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