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Rules... sticky subject.
I know it can be argued that, ultimately, love is a game, but no one wants to feel like they are being played with. It's necessary to "play," but if the man can sense that, you're in trouble.
The whole key is to say what you mean and mean what you say. If you really want to be in a long-term, commited relationship, don't sit down on your first date and tell him how you love living the single life. If you're not ready to be tied down, don't tell him you are just because it sounds good. Be real! You can't have any regrets if you follow your heart and stay honest.
If you are thinking about him and want to call him, do it. Just be smart. If you ALWAYS have to initiate conversation, chances are he ain't the one! But at least you checked it out! No regrets.
Just stay alert and honest and I believe things have a way of kind of falling into place when it's right.
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