SOMEtimes, people have a tendency to take "rules" too far.
The
absolute rules of decorum in ALL situations of behavior, is to make the other person, your guest for instance, feel comfortable-REGARDLESS of Emily Post or Miss Manners. This is the true definition of a gentle person.
Now, lets assume the wedding party was selected with care and concern for all involved. The bride should offer to pay for the dresses. It will be the decision of the individuals in the party as to whether or not they accept. THIS is the refined solution, the courteous solution, that differentiates people from the masses.
OT-FeeFee, it drove me nuts when she took her daughter's place in the soap opera! The commet for the bathroom and Christmas toys were horrid as well!
