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Originally posted by dog dog bang bang:
Chivalry is not dead brothers just scared. Have you all heard that saying. But women today feel so independent that they don't give a brother a chance to even be chilvarous that a brother tries to give a woman that independency, so when a brother do be chivalrous he's wrong sometimes and when he don't he's wrong. How can a brother win? But it is not dead. Women just be patient. When I was in school, I'll carry women boxes all across the yard, and sometimes be late for class. But sometimes when I offer some women say no I got it. So I say "Are you sure?" and they say yeah. So I just let it go.
This time in society everyone is trying to have stature even if they ain't got a pot to piss in. The reason it doesn't happen is because people to day really live a life of impressions to the fullest. That goes for women and men. I'm not going to lie, I have seen brothers just sit back and let a sista carry a 35 inch TV and I be trippin'. But there is just a communication gap between brothers and sistas. All because a brother does something nice does not mean he want some from you, cause if that was the case I'll be a super freak and have all the honey's. But Chivalry is not dead we are all just caught up in a fasaad mentally.
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Brother, you sound as if you have the heart of the truest chivalrist (is that a word?) To me, that's what its all about, the heart. A lack of communication and the various social movements have made the hearts of men and women so hard that the battle of the sexes is at an all time high.
If you offered to carry Nikki's boxes, she'd let you carry them.
As I said before, I encourage chivalry. I know that there are simply things that I, as a woman, am not equipped to do. I also just love seeing the heart of a man when he sincerely is just trying to be nice.
[This message has been edited by nikki25 (edited June 28, 2001).]