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I definaly would say to go with your heart. Your big sis should be someone that you can talk to when you have problems, when you get frustrated with DG/School/life. Don't worry about her not getting a little if you decided to go with someone else. In my chapter their were girls who didn't get littles right away, but when they did finally get a little it was the perfect one for them! If your heart says to go with one girl over the other do that. My third little had a hard time with that too. She was really torn between the girl who rushed her and preffed her and me. I only met her at our pref dance the friday after bid day. But when it came down to it she really couldn't decide and she put us both down because she really wanted me but she felt like beause the other girl preffed her she should put her down. And the New member educator knew that and knew I was the one for her because she didn't feel obligated to be my little. And i know now she couldn't be happier.
Just remember your big needs to be someone you can turn to in a time of need not just someone to go shopping with or party with! Even though both me and my big sis have graduated I still talk to her all the time and she still helps me out with my problems. She is truely like my real big sister. I hope that helps! So I am so long winded but well i tend to talk a lot, so I write the same way. If you have any other questions I would be glad to help.
love
Melissa
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