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Hey Christy,

First off welcome to Greekchat - don't forget to post your info in the roll call thread at the top of this forum.

Now to answer your question - don't think that the sisters are mad at you, sometimes I think it's just hard for the chapters to keep in contact with their alum. Even with individual sisters that are good friends - when one goes Alum sometimes it just seems like life gets in the way and stops the active from contacting the alum, even with the Alum contacting you first. I know that my Sapphire Sister has emailed me a couple of times and I haven't responded - somewhere in the back of my mind I think that she knows I love her and that I have school, sorority work, etc and that I'll email her back tomorrow. The only problem is that tomorrow nevers comes it seems like.


Maybe you can write them a letter and send it snail mail - maybe a good luck on recruitment or missing all of you. In the letter ask them when the next alum event is and just show up for it. Or if you can just surprise them with a visit.

In the meantime, see if there is an Alum Chapter near you and get involved with them. Or even an active chapter near where you are, they might need some help and would love for you to offer it.

I wish I could offer more advice and comfort,
Carolyn