I think if they really wanted to keep the wedding private then they shoiuld just do it in one of their MANY homes...so what if you have all this money and want to have a big wedding...this is her 3rd!...HELLO!...been there, done that!
Its the only way they are going to have true privacy, you don't NEED 100+ guest list if all you want to do is just get married, all you need is the two of you.
I'm sorry that someone is leaking info about her "day" but you're in the media, so you can't just be so shocked that people wont leave you alone. I think its a double negative...if they hound you, you hate them, if they aren't anywhere around you, you aren't news worthy....they both just need to buck up and shut up!
just a quick vent