I actually follow The Rules
ala carte style... I take the risk of getting myself hurt, but I walk in with my eyes wide open... Because I followed them, I think that has given me the chance to meet the man I love and call my husband--IMO... I dunno if it will work for others, but they have worked for me...
Hey, you can disagree with me all you want. But if you encountered similar problems as I have had with the "please screw me over" stamped on my forehead, then boot camp style Rules really did work for me...
PM me if you want to know some of them... If you dare...