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Basically, I tend to think words are just words...usually.
The tone in which those words are delivered says so much more than how we, as the ones listening, define them.
Honestly, I do try to speak and use terms that aren't offensive, but I just can't get all that worked up on this issue. Especially since I grew up with the term "frat" as compared to "fraternity".
Realistically, if someone intends to throw out a "put down", all it takes is a delivery style known as the "velvet glove".
MysticCat81 I agree with several of your points.
The funny thing is, I too really doubt non Greeks or anti Greeks have given this much thought. Sure some may be perceptive and realize it's considered a rub, but for the most part, I really don't think they care enough to have examined the topic.
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