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Originally posted by novella000:
I NEVER give my number to a guy, no matter how nice, fine, etc., that I have just met. I can't remember a time that I have ever felt comfortable doing so.
All of the men I have ever dated have been guys I knew for a while as friends... I have to know he's not an ass and that I can talk to him before we go out.
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That's me too, except I have given out my number a
few (read, like 3) times, unfortunately. I know the reason I don't have a man at the moment is probably because of this, but since I'm still in school I don't even care b/c I have other things to focus on (grades, job, etc). WHATEVA!!
This is why I do this:
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Originally posted by Total Elegance:
You: Ey scruse me, you gotta man?
Me: Yes (lying)
You: Are you happy?
Me: Yes
You: Do you cheat?
Me: WTF?
Another case, true story
You: Hey bru-ti-ful....(yeah that's what he said..brutiful.)
Me: <Blank stare> 
You: Is u married?
Me: Yes, showing my ring (I'm lying but I occasionaly wear a ring to keep the strays away but sometimes it doesn't work, cause he approached me.)
You: Girl that ain't no wedding ring. This is a wedding ring (and he shows me his wedding ring.) So can I have your number? 
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LOL at "Eyscruse me"!!
This is why I WILL NOT talk to any-old-body-I-meet-on-the-street. I DO NOT like thugs, gangbangers, criminals, uneducated men, triflin' men, men with no job, and everthing that was one Sweetest Diva's DO NOT list.
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Originally posted by SweetestDiva:
DO NOT...
1. Whisper "Pssssst..." when I walk by. I might turn around, but you can trust it will only be to roll my eyes at you.
2. Refer to me as "lil mama", "shawty" or "boo". Really, this applies even if we're already involved.
3. Even THINK about putting your hands on me when I pass you. You don't know me like that.
4. Send your raggedy friend to tell me you "wanna holla". Junior high is over... you may as well pass me a note.
5. Ask for my number and get pissy when I tell you no. Would you rather I give you a wrong number? Perhaps give you my real number and never answer when you call? Cut your losses.
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Also add:
DO NOT get mad at men b/c I don't wanna give you my phone number and then call me a b&#%h--b/c a minute ago you were tryin' to holla at me!! Also,
DO NOT yell "Hey!" or "ey!" at me from across the street b/c I will not respond. When a guy yelled "ey!", a friend of mine used to yell "B...C, D!" back at them, LOL. They used to look at her like she was the crazy one.
Lastly,
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Originally posted by OhSoPrettyNikki:
I absolutely hate :
3. Damn you sexy to be a big girl!!!!
Basically anything besides an introduction, I find annoying!
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I feel you on that except I always get: "DAYUM!! You are FIIIIIINE for a dark-skinned girl!!" WTF? Then the guy has the nerve to ask me for my number after he insulted me!!
I absolutely
loathe this comment--as if all light-skinned girls are pretty and all dark-skinned sistahs are butt-ugly?!
These things make me feel glad (for the moment at least) that I am single!!
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