A good friend of mine in college did not get a big that was even on her list. She was THRILLED once she got to know her big and could not have been happier had it been the girl she originally wanted. Even from the moment of revealing, she was not disappointed because her big was so enthusiatic.
Now, that same friend, when choosing her little., did not get the little she put down, same scenario, she was not disappointed at all, never really gave the "hey she didn't choose me" a thought, just dove in wholeheartedly into loving her new little.
So choose the girl you want, is my advice.
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