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Originally posted by 33girl
As an independent woman (tm Beyonce...LOL), the whole concept of having to "use" the men's houses or parties with the men as a place to drink sickens me. It just furthers the concept that sorority membership revolves around, and sorority members are dependent on, men.
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Yes, yes, yes! I was going to mention this earlier.
It puts us in debt to these guys, so to speak, and there's a balance of power that definitely falls in their favor, which makes me uncomfortable. I know there are plenty of fraternity guys out there whom I'm sure don't see it as the sorority girls "owing" them something, but I'm also sure that there are fraternity guys out there who do -- and I don't really want to think about how that kind of imbalance of power could manifest itself.