I'm not saying Shakodat is an attacker
I'm just saying sometimes there's too much pressure put on the organization to "change" the wayward ways of its members.
Girls who want to drink and drive will drink and drive. Membership may give them more consequences for their actions, and offer them more ways to get help when they are ready for it... but in the end, the individual org. is not responsible for this. It's our responsibility to offer the help, to enforce the consequences, to try and promote womanhood... but in the end it's the individual members that much take the ultimate responsibility.
It just gets on me because I've seen it happen, too. Sometimes it's not a Gamma Phi Beta thing or a Phi Mu thing.... it's a Jenna or a Becca thing.