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Originally posted by smiley21
oh dear, here i go again. i know people who just wanted to date a certain race who i knew wasnt predjudice. but yes of course it could be a sign. i for one dont choose people by race. people can date whoever they want. i know that great dating partners come in every color. but to choose doesnt have to always mean that they are predjuiced. i wish that things were different and color didnt factor into anything. i am sorry that people seem to be misunderstanding by words, but please understand i am not predjuiced or racist, nor do i condone anyone who is. i just have learn to accept things for what they are. i cant change everything. i wish i could but i cant. i personally dont like that people choose partners by ethnicity. but i dont know everyone's personal reason for doing so, therefore i cannot say anything. i have said enough, cause i am getting a headache.
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there's a reason why they wanted to date a certain race and not a certain person....probably from things they've heard or are trying to experiment. that's the simple truth of the matter. if i say i want to date a white girl, and not say i want to date becky...that's saying something. i'm wanting to date the idea and not the person. that's the wrong reason to get at someone.