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I don't know. I was 19 when I joined, and I joined because I was a transfer and I wanted to befriend some girls. I joined with six other women.

* my pledge sister Julie joined because her mom had died 6 months ago and she felt like she needed more female friends

* my pledge sisters Mindy and Deanna joined because they wanted to understand what "sisterhood" really was -- how it was different than their female friendships they already had.

* my pledge sisters Meredith and Kirsten joined because they wanted a group they "clicked" with to hang out with

* my pledge sister Mary joined because she'd always felt at home with women, and sorority life was a natural extension for her.


I don't know that I'd say most 18-21 year old women are only interested in partying and boys.