Every organization should have guidelines (criteria, whatever word works) to which they should adhere when it comes to membership selection. We don't just say we didn't "click" with a girl, we have to discuss her membership within the realms of our guidelines. I highly recommend that you all first discuss, then brainstorm, and then vote to adopt guidelines for membership criteria. All of the NPC orgs I have dealt with also operate this way (check out several sights - you'll see a common theme among the groups). Also, by adopting a formal set of guidelines, you will be helping to prevent incidents like this in the future (as well as possible lawsuits by someone who is mad that she didn't get a bid and decides to sue for discrimination....I know it sounds out there, but look at all the stupid suits we see everyday!) Grades should be a start for establishing guidelines.
As far as this person goes, I think you all should look at why you don't "click" with her tonight at your meeting. I'm all for the quality vs. quantity thing, but at this point, I think you should want to try and encourage membership for all those meeting your guidelines! Please feel free to email me if you need some more ideas about establishing guidelines! Good Luck!
Please feel free to email me about other issues. Good luck!
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