Can you Chi-Os tell me. Isn't yall's flower the white carnation? I was thinking about sending Erin a bouquet to the hospital. I sponsored Erin when she went through rush. She was an in-house legacy to Chi-O and I know for sure her sister will be there at the hospital as well. I only ask but I didn't know if the white flowers would be appropriate. I feel certain her sister would "get it" so to speak but I don't want anyone else thinking "well b/c these are white they must be for the funeral" or some crap. Hell I don't even know if there is a certain type of flowers for funerals either. I am just praying so much right now. I wish I could be with her. I live overseas. We just moved here in March and since then my Grandfather has had a stroke and now this. I apologize I'm not trying to throw myself a pity party I just feel helpless and it frustrates me
