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I would recommend one of two things:
1) If you want to check both groups out then use the discreet approach instead of the total honesty approach -- I am not saying to lie but I would not volunteer that you are looking at two groups...personally and I know this may get me flamed but it is how I feel, as a past alum chapter pres and one who has helped at least half dozen women become GFB AI's, I would be somewhat offended if I knew we were in "competition" with another GLO...
2) Choose one group to pursue BEFORE you attend any events and then when the other group questions (if they do) why you cannot come to their event, THEN be honest and tell them 'generally' what happened -- you do NOT want them to feel like they were a second choice....
Whatever you decide, good luck and please keep us posted!
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